Choyamba, lingaliro
Kunena zowona, kuphunzitsa galu si kumuchitira nkhanza. Mofananamo, kulola galu kuchita chilichonse chimene akufuna sikukonda kwenikweni galuyo. Agalu amafunikira chitsogozo cholimba ndipo akhoza kukhala ndi nkhawa ngati sanaphunzitsidwe momwe angachitire pazochitika zosiyanasiyana.
1. Ngakhale kuti dzinali ndi lophunzitsa galuyo, cholinga cha maphunziro onsewo ndi kuphunzitsa mwiniwakeyo kuti azilankhulana bwino ndi galuyo. Kupatula apo, IQ yathu ndi kumvetsetsa kwathu ndizapamwamba kuposa zawo, chifukwa chake tiyenera kuzimvetsetsa ndikuzisintha. Ngati simuphunzitsa kapena kuyankhulana bwino, musayembekezere galu kuyesera kuti azolowere kwa inu, adzangoganiza kuti sindinu mtsogoleri wabwino ndipo sadzakulemekezani.
2. Maphunziro a agalu amachokera pakulankhulana kwabwino. Agalu sangamvetse zomwe timanena, koma kulankhulana kogwira mtima kuyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti zofuna za mwiniwake ndi zofuna zake zimaperekedwa kwa galu, ndiko kuti, galuyo ayenera kudziwa ngati khalidwe linalake ndilolondola kapena lolakwika, kotero kuti maphunziro a galu ayenera kukhala olondola. akhoza kukhala atanthauzo. Ukamumenya ndi kumudzudzula, koma sakudziwa chomwe walakwa, zimangopangitsa kuti azikuopa, ndipo khalidwe lake silidzakonzedwa. Kuti mudziwe zambiri za momwe mungalankhulire, chonde pitirizani kuwerenga pansipa.
3. Zomwe zikuphatikiza ndi kuti maphunziro a galu ayenera kukhala a nthawi yayitali, komanso, kubwerezabwereza, ndi mawu achinsinsi ndizofunikira kwambiri panthawi ya maphunziro. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muphunzitsa galu kukhala pansi, muyenera kuchita kamodzi kokha. Ndikuyembekeza kuti akhoza kuphunzira tsiku limodzi, ndipo n'zosatheka kuyamba kumvera tsiku lotsatira; Gwiritsani ntchito mawu achinsinsiwa. Ngati asinthidwa mwadzidzidzi kuti "mwana akhale pansi" mawa, sangathe kumvetsa. Ngati asintha mobwerezabwereza, adzasokonezeka ndipo sangathe kuphunzira izi; zomwezo zikhoza kuphunziridwa pambuyo mobwerezabwereza, ndipo ziyenera kulimbikitsidwa mwakhama pambuyo pophunzira. Ngati muphunzira kukhala pansi osagwiritsa ntchito nthawi zambiri, galu adzayiwala; galuyo sangatenge malingaliro kuchokera ku chitsanzo chimodzi, kotero zochitikazo ndizofunikira kwambiri nthawi zambiri. Agalu ambiri amaphunzira kumvera malamulo kunyumba, koma samamvetsetsa kuti lamulo lomwelo limagwira ntchito pazochitika zonse akamatuluka ndikusintha mawonekedwe akunja.
4. Kutengera ndime 2 ndi 3, ndizothandiza kwambiri kukhala ndi mphotho ndi zilango zomveka. Ngati mukulondola, mudzalandira mphotho, ndipo ngati mutachita zoipa, mudzalangidwa. Chilango chingaphatikizepo kumenyedwa, koma kumenya mwankhanza ndi kumenya mosalekeza sikuvomerezedwa. Ngati mupitirizabe kumenya, mudzapeza kuti kukana kwa galuyo kumenyedwa kukuwonjezereka tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo potsirizira pake tsiku lina mudzaona kuti ngakhale mutamenya mochuluka bwanji, sizingagwire ntchito. Ndipo kumenyedwa kuyenera kuchitika pamene galuyo akudziwa chifukwa chake adamenyedwa, ndipo galu yemwe sanamvetsetse chifukwa chake adamenyedwa adzawopa mwiniwake, ndipo umunthu wake udzakhala womvera komanso wamantha. Chidule chake ndi chakuti: pokhapokha mutagwira thumba pamalopo pamene galu alakwitsa, akhoza kupangitsa galu kuzindikira momveka bwino kuti walakwitsa kotero kuti amenyedwa, ndipo kuwomberako kumakhala kolemera kwambiri. Sizikuyenda bwino monga momwe anthu ambiri amaganizira. Kumenya galu sikuvomerezeka! Kumenya galu sikuvomerezeka! Kumenya galu sikuvomerezeka!
5. Maphunzirowa akuchokera pa mfundo yakuti galu amalemekeza utsogoleri wa mbuye wake. Ndikukhulupirira kuti aliyense wamva chiphunzitso chakuti "agalu ndi abwino kwambiri kuyika mphuno pa nkhope zawo". Ngati galuyo akuona kuti mwini wakeyo ndi wocheperapo kwa iye, kuphunzitsa sikungakhale kothandiza.
6. Gouzi's IQ sipamwamba kwambiri, choncho musayembekezere zambiri. Malingaliro a Gouzi ndi ophweka kwambiri: khalidwe linalake - pezani ndemanga (zabwino kapena zoipa) - bwerezani ndikukulitsa chidwicho - ndipo potsirizira pake dziwani. Alangeni zochita zolakwika ndi kuphunzitsa zolondola pazochitika zomwezo kuti zikhale zogwira mtima. Palibe chifukwa chokhala ndi malingaliro ngati "galu wanga ndi nkhandwe, ndimamuchitira bwino ndipo amandilumabe", kapena chiganizo chomwechi, galu alibe nzeru zokwanira kuti amvetsetse kuti ngati mumuchitira bwino, ali ndi vuto. kuti ndikulemekezeni. . Ulemu wa galuyo umachokera pa udindo wokhazikitsidwa ndi mwiniwake komanso chiphunzitso chomveka.
7. Kuyenda ndi kukankha kungachepetse mavuto ambiri a khalidwe, makamaka agalu aamuna.
Ngakhale kuti dzinali ndi kuphunzitsa galuyo, cholinga cha maphunziro onsewo ndi kuphunzitsa mwiniwakeyo kuti azilankhulana bwino ndi galuyo. Kupatula apo, IQ yathu ndi kumvetsetsa kwathu ndizapamwamba kuposa zawo, chifukwa chake tiyenera kuzimvetsetsa ndikuzisintha. Ngati simuphunzitsa kapena kuyankhulana bwino, musayembekezere galu kuyesera kuti azolowere kwa inu, adzangoganiza kuti sindinu mtsogoleri wabwino ndipo sadzakulemekezani.
Maphunziro a agalu amachokera pakulankhulana kwabwino. Agalu sangamvetse zomwe timanena, koma kulankhulana kogwira mtima kuyenera kuwonetsetsa kuti zofuna za mwiniwake ndi zofuna zake zimaperekedwa kwa galu, ndiko kuti, galuyo ayenera kudziwa ngati khalidwe linalake ndilolondola kapena lolakwika, kotero kuti maphunziro a galu ayenera kukhala olondola. akhoza kukhala atanthauzo. Ukamumenya ndi kumudzudzula, koma sakudziwa chomwe walakwa, zimangopangitsa kuti azikuopa, ndipo khalidwe lake silidzakonzedwa. Kuti mudziwe zambiri za momwe mungalankhulire, chonde pitirizani kuwerenga pansipa.
Zomwe zikuphatikiza ndikuti maphunziro a galu ayenera kukhala a nthawi yayitali, komanso, kubwerezabwereza, komanso mawu achinsinsi ndizofunikira kwambiri pamaphunziro. Mwachitsanzo, ngati muphunzitsa galu kukhala pansi, muyenera kuchita kamodzi kokha. Ndikuyembekeza kuti akhoza kuphunzira tsiku limodzi, ndipo n'zosatheka kuyamba kumvera tsiku lotsatira; Gwiritsani ntchito mawu achinsinsiwa. Ngati asinthidwa mwadzidzidzi kuti "mwana akhale pansi" mawa, sangathe kumvetsa. Ngati asintha mobwerezabwereza, adzasokonezeka ndipo sangathe kuphunzira izi; zomwezo zikhoza kuphunziridwa pambuyo mobwerezabwereza, ndipo ziyenera kulimbikitsidwa mwakhama pambuyo pophunzira. Ngati muphunzira kukhala pansi osaigwiritsa ntchito kawirikawiri, galuyo amaiwala; galuyo sangatenge malingaliro kuchokera ku chitsanzo chimodzi, kotero zochitikazo ndizofunikira kwambiri nthawi zambiri. Agalu ambiri amaphunzira kumvera malamulo kunyumba, koma samamvetsetsa kuti lamulo lomwelo limagwira ntchito pazochitika zonse akamatuluka ndikusintha mawonekedwe akunja.
4. Kutengera ndime 2 ndi 3, ndizothandiza kwambiri kukhala ndi mphotho ndi zilango zomveka. Ngati mukulondola, mudzalandira mphotho, ndipo ngati mutachita zoipa, mudzalangidwa. Chilango chingaphatikizepo kumenyedwa, koma kumenya mwankhanza ndi kumenya mosalekeza sikuvomerezedwa. Ngati mupitirizabe kumenya, mudzapeza kuti kukana kwa galuyo kumenyedwa kukuwonjezereka tsiku ndi tsiku, ndipo potsirizira pake tsiku lina mudzaona kuti ngakhale mutamenya mochuluka bwanji, sizingagwire ntchito. Ndipo kumenyedwa kuyenera kuchitika pamene galuyo akudziwa chifukwa chake adamenyedwa, ndipo galu yemwe sanamvetsetse chifukwa chake adamenyedwa adzawopa mwiniwake, ndipo umunthu wake udzakhala womvera komanso wamantha. Chidule chake ndi chakuti: pokhapokha mutagwira thumba pamalopo pamene galu alakwitsa, akhoza kupangitsa galu kuzindikira momveka bwino kuti walakwitsa kotero kuti amenyedwa, ndipo kuwomberako kumakhala kolemera kwambiri. Sizikuyenda bwino monga momwe anthu ambiri amaganizira. Kumenya galu sikuvomerezeka! Kumenya galu sikuvomerezeka! Kumenya galu sikuvomerezeka!
5. Maphunzirowa akuchokera pa mfundo yakuti galu amalemekeza utsogoleri wa mbuye wake. Ndikukhulupirira kuti aliyense wamva chiphunzitso chakuti "agalu ndi abwino kwambiri kuyika mphuno pa nkhope zawo". Ngati galuyo akuona kuti mwini wakeyo ndi wocheperapo kwa iye, kuphunzitsa sikungakhale kothandiza.
6. Gouzi's IQ sipamwamba kwambiri, choncho musayembekezere zambiri. Malingaliro a Gouzi ndi ophweka kwambiri: khalidwe linalake - pezani ndemanga (zabwino kapena zoipa) - bwerezani ndikukulitsa chidwicho - ndipo potsirizira pake dziwani. Alangeni zochita zolakwika ndi kuphunzitsa zolondola pazochitika zomwezo kuti zikhale zogwira mtima. Palibe chifukwa chokhala ndi malingaliro ngati "galu wanga ndi nkhandwe, ndimamuchitira bwino ndipo amandilumabe", kapena chiganizo chomwechi, galu alibe nzeru zokwanira kuti amvetsetse kuti ngati mumuchitira bwino, ali ndi vuto. kuti ndikulemekezeni. . Ulemu wa galuyo umachokera pa udindo wokhazikitsidwa ndi mwiniwake komanso chiphunzitso chomveka.
7. Kuyenda ndi kukankha kungachepetse mavuto ambiri a khalidwe, makamaka agalu aamuna.
8. Chonde musaganize zomusiya galuyo chifukwa chakuti ndi wosamvera. Ganizilani izi mosamala, kodi mwakwanitsa maudindo onse amene muyenela kukhala nawo monga mbuye? Munamuphunzitsa bwino? Kapena mumayembekezera kuti iye adzakhala wanzeru kwambiri kotero kuti simufunikira kumuphunzitsa kuti adzangodziŵa zokonda zanu? Kodi galu wanu mumamudziwadi? ali okondwa Kodi ndinu abwino kwa iye? Sizitanthauza kuti kumudyetsa, kumusambitsa ndi kumuononga ndalama n’kwabwino. Chonde musamusiye yekha kunyumba kwa nthawi yayitali. Kutuluka kukayenda galu sikokwanira kukodza. Amafunikanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi komanso anzake. Chonde musakhale ndi lingaliro lakuti "galu wanga ayenera kukhala wokhulupirika ndi womvera, ndipo ayenera kumenyedwa ndi ine". Ngati mukufuna kulemekezedwa ndi galu wanu, muyeneranso kulemekeza zosowa zake zofunika.
9. Chonde musaganize kuti galu wanu ndi woopsa kuposa agalu ena. Ndi khalidwe labwino kuuwa mukamatuluka. Izi zidzachititsa mantha odutsa, ndipo ndi chifukwa choyambirira cha mkangano pakati pa anthu ndi agalu. Komanso, agalu omwe ndi osavuta kuuwa kapena kukhala ndi makhalidwe aukali nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi nkhawa komanso osakhazikika, zomwe sizomwe zimakhala zokhazikika komanso zathanzi kwa agalu. Chonde kwezani galu wanu mwachitukuko. Musalole kuti galu adzimve kuti muli nokha komanso wopanda chochita chifukwa cha kulephera kwa mwiniwake, ndipo musabweretse mavuto kwa ena.
10. Chonde musayembekezere ndi kufuna zambiri kuchokera kwa Gouzi, ndipo chonde musadandaule kuti iye ndi wonyansa, wosamvera komanso wosazindikira. Monga mwini galu, muyenera kumvetsetsa: choyamba, munapanga chisankho chosunga galu, ndipo munasankha kutenga galu kunyumba, kotero muyenera kuyang'anizana ndi zabwino zake ndi zoipa zake monga mwiniwake. Chachiwiri, Gouzi ndi Gouzi, simungamufunse ngati munthu, ndipo n'zosamveka kuyembekezera kuti achite zomwe akunena atangophunzitsidwa. Chachitatu, ngati galu akadali wamng'ono, muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti akadali mwana, akuyang'anabe dziko lapansi ndikuyesera kuti adziŵe mwiniwake, ndi zachilendo kuti athamangire ndikuyambitsa mavuto chifukwa akadali. wamng'ono, inu ndi iye Kuyanjana ndi njira yomvetsetsana ndi kusintha. Ndi chinthu chosatheka kuyembekezera kuti iye adzakuzindikirani monga mbuye wake patangopita masiku ochepa atabwera kunyumba ndi kumvetsa dzina lake. Zonsezi, khalidwe la galu limasonyeza mwachindunji khalidwe la mwiniwake. Mukamapereka nthawi ndi maphunziro ambiri kwa galuyo, adzatha kuchita bwino.
11. Chonde musabweretse malingaliro aumwini, monga mkwiyo ndi kukhumudwa, pamene mukuphunzitsa agalu (bwanji mutatha kuphunzitsa nthawi zambiri). Yesetsani kukhala ndi zolinga momwe mungathere mu maphunziro a galu ndikukambirana zenizeni momwe zikuyimira.
12. Yesetsani kupewa khalidwe lolakwika ndi kuwongolera khalidwe loyenera galuyo asanalakwitse.
13. Chilankhulo chaumunthu chimene galu angamvetse ndi chochepa kwambiri, choncho akachita chinachake cholakwika, yankho lachangu la mwiniwake ndi kagwiridwe kake (chilankhulidwe cha thupi) ndi lothandiza kwambiri kuposa chinenero chapakamwa ndi kuphunzitsa mwadala. Malingaliro a Gouzi amayang'ana kwambiri pamakhalidwe ndi zotsatira zake. M'maso a Gouzi, zochita zake zonse zidzabweretsa zotsatira zina. Komanso, nthawi yoti agalu akhazikike mtima kwambiri ndi yaifupi kwambiri, choncho nthawi yake ndi yofunika kwambiri popereka mphoto ndi kulanga. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, monga mwiniwake, kusuntha kwanu kulikonse ndi ndemanga ndi maphunziro a khalidwe la galu.
Kupereka chitsanzo chophweka, pamene galu Ahua anali ndi miyezi itatu, ankakonda kuluma m'manja mwake. Nthawi zonse akaluma mwini wake F, F amakana ndikugwira Ahua ndi dzanja limodzi, akumayembekezera kuti asiya kuluma. . F adawona kuti maphunziro ake ali m'malo, kotero adati ayi, ndikukankhira Ah Hua kutali, koma Ah Hua sakanatha kuphunzira kuti asalume, kotero adakhumudwa kwambiri.
Kulakwitsa kwa khalidweli ndikuti galu akuganiza kuti kukhudzidwa ndi mphotho / kusewera naye, koma zomwe F anachita mwamsanga Ah Hua ataluma ndikumukhudza. Mwa kuyankhula kwina, galu adzagwirizanitsa kuluma = kukhudzidwa = kupatsidwa mphotho, kotero m'maganizo mwake mwiniwake akulimbikitsa khalidwe loluma. Koma nthawi yomweyo, F sadzaperekanso malangizo apakamwa, ndipo Ah Hua amamvetsetsanso kuti palibe malangizowo amatanthauza kuti wachita cholakwika. Choncho, Ahua ankaona kuti mbuyeyo ankadzipindulitsa pamene ankanena kuti walakwa, choncho sankamvetsa ngati kumuluma pamanja kunali koyenera kapena kulakwa.
Nthawi yotumiza: Dec-01-2023
